1. I feel for both of you. Like you, I sleep very little and it has been this way all my life. Naturally, I’d start on starting the relaxation or “slowing down” (as much as possible anyway) early evening if possible.

  2. I did take some melatonin. I am just not used to having to go to bed early. I normally have had second shift instead of first shift jobs so thats why. Hopefully tonight I will be tired and can sleep

  3. I don't have health insurance or I would. I'm hoping it's just a random phase that'll pass soon. I'm considering staying up all day, I'd I can manage it, like doing a hard reset on my sleep schedule. It's so difficult when you're not in your 20s anymore tho lol

  4. I am used to staying up til like 3 am but since this new job requires me to be at work at 7am , I tried to go to bed earlier so that's why I couldn't sleep. I know once I get off later in the day it's gonna be hard to not take a nap which won't be good for my sleep schedule.

  5. How does going out give you melatonin? Where I live the street lights are bright blue 5000K LEDs

  6. What I meant is I went to the store to get some melatonin gummies to take before going to bed.

  7. Your friends must be pretty young..I don't really know that many mature adults that think that owning cats is not masculine. Good for you for wanting to adopt a cat.

  8. Don't do it!! You can beat your addiction to porn. It is not easy, yes, but it is manageable. You will really hurt your loved ones if you commit suicide and it will ruin their lives . think of them before you decide to commit to suicide. Go to an in person Sex Addicts Anonymous meeting to help you with your urges

  9. I have never viewed any of the younger men I've dated as "toys"; I've genuinely adored and cared for each and every one of them.

  10. But what if he didn't want a family? Would you be open to settling down with him if that was the case?

  11. You may have to accept reality and do what many people are doing these days - working 2 or 3 or more jobs while at the same time living with a roommate or 2 or more to help with making rent more affordable.

  12. I currently live alone but I am thinking of trying to get a roommate when my lease ends in 2 months. It's been so long since I have had a roommate so it would be a tough adjustment but doable.

  13. OMG I am so glad to hear this! Congrats! I hope you can get together with her to celebrate soon!

  14. Yeah I hate Workday. I hate having to create a damn account everytime I wanna apply for a job

  15. You need to cut out the sweets. Your body doesn't know the difference between fake and real sugar. All it knows is sweetness.

  16. Yeah that's what I was wondering..if the body processes fake sugar and real sugar differently. Thanks

  17. It doesn't matter if it is common or not. You are who you are. You are allowed to have preferences. No need to label yourself if you don't want to.

  18. My partner is 21 and I am 42. We met in the wild. I don't think we would have met on an app. My age range would have ruled him out and I don't know if I would have taken his interest in me seriously. I might have just thought he was looking to land a MILF for a one-er or something. IRL, he was so nice and I really could not resist his charm. Finding out about his age came later, though he knew mine. My advice for you is start approaching women in public who are the type you seek. It will give you practice and you might get lucky!

  19. Not the OP, but I am into older women too. I always wanted to try approaching in public but I am worried about getting the whole "I could be your mother" thing. This advice is inspiring though. thanks

  20. I’m so sorry you are going through this. I can’t imagine how difficult it must be to be in your situation. I’m a 25 yo F, and have found myself on this sub because I’m having suspicions that the man I love might be bi. I’m not sure whether you want my two cents, but if I may; maybe this will help you understand why you feel resistance from straight females…

  21. The thought that bisexual men or women are just gay, and not wanting to admit it is so antiquated, yet it exists. When I was young that was the mentality held by people, both heterosexual and homosexual. Women were worried a bisexual man would leave them for another guy, and that impacted their femininity. The thing is, you do not have to tell anyone, and just live your life. Whom you have sex with is your business. Not telling people your sexuality is not being closeted. Telling people your sexuality is narcissistic.

  22. I feel if you are going to be in a relationship with someone , they deserve to know you are bi. I don't think it is fair to the other person for them to not know. Why would it be narcissistic to tell them? When we hide our sexuality from our partners it implies shame. And if we want respect we have to show that being bi is nothing to be ashamed of.

  23. That sub is really toxic. I’m on it and it’s totally unregulated. No mods at all.

  24. No wonder. I didn't know that it didn't have mods. I thought Reddit usually shuts down those type of subs

  25. File the tax return on time even if you can't pay. It will save you the late-filing penalty. You'll still have to pay interest on your late payment, but it's not too much.

  26. If I file my taxes on FreeTaxUSA.com, do they give you the option to file even if you can't pay right away?

  27. I agree with your take on the whole “love yourself” industry. Feeling inadequate and not good enough and not attractive enough is… normal. Human. You can feel it every day and still be perfectly happy in your imperfection. We are all imperfect and not good enough. In fact, most of the people I know who fully “love themselves” are some of the most selfish and narcissist people I know.

  28. I don't understand why some people on this board are so against the whole love yourself idea. Most people don't want to be with someone with self hate issues . I was with someone like that and their not being able to manage their insecurities really fucked up our relationship. I am not saying people need to be perfect but I think accepting yourself and your flaws can make you more attractive.

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