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AITA for telling my BIL to get over himself and to quit holding a 10 year old grudge?

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AITA for telling a girl to stop wasting food?

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  1. Omg omg omg!!! Two weeks ago my a sister (GC) sent me the EXACT SAME type of letter about my husband. My therapist told me to not give the fodder or the time of day. They want a reaction. They want to know they are getting through and poking the bear. Just don’t. Maybe talk to your therapist about what benefit they are hoping to get from you opening up contact again because idk how this benefits you.

  2. Sorry, YTA. That teacher has enough to do without having to be a hairdresser as well. I think her advice on products and techniques was a gentle hint that you need to learn how to do it yourself. Step up.

  3. As someone who worked in child care… so not true. Yes we can do other stuff during that time but helping parents parent and looking out for kids is the job.

  4. NTA. You are doing the best with what you got. Being newly divorced meaning finding new challenges. Keep learning, keep growing, and keep being there for your daughter. All the people saying otherwise are too caught up in themselves to see the struggle.

  5. Question: why didn’t insurance pay for the skid loader? Doesn’t BIL have insurance on his equipment? Like essentially both parties would file with insurance and they would fight each other until everything is covered…. So… what happened?

  6. They were business equipment being towed by two non-employees to a non-business function. My guess is that BIL’s insurance required him to file a police report before they’ll cover it so that’s why the sister had to talk him out of it.

  7. If people went to the hospital like the post suggested, there was already a police report. Also, it isn’t illegal for non-employees to tow business equipment. People keep saying they stole… which is true on some level… but that didn’t have to be stated to the authorities. So again, why wasn’t his stuff covered by his insurance.

  8. You are such a good guy and did a very good thing by picking her up and spending time with her. However, YTA for not checking with mom about the motorcycle. No one here should be to angry with you about it. But practice caution in the future. There will be other things in the future that you will need to discuss with mom before doing with daughter. This is just a learning experience for you.

  9. YTA. You are insufferable. There is no educating. Leave her alone! Eating disorder or no, it is extremely rude and impolite to comment on anyone eating habits! You clearly grew up in a place with food scarcity. Most of that food in that cafeteria goes to waste. I work in food production, so much food goes in the garbage. This girl can throw away 5X the amount of food you see her throwing away and it won’t have any affect on food shortages. Hell, when I was in college people took 5 gallon tubes of ice cream out of the cafeteria to dumb in the dorm showers for fun! Why do you care?!?!?

  10. While I would love your response of "oh, actually, I don't miss you at all and, by the way, I will be happy to dance on your grave", it is best to ignore it. I'm sure you are there already and know that.

  11. Thank you so much. I tested up a bit reading your comment. It’s been a lot of heart ache and growing for me.

  12. Oh she was when we were younger. She literally tries to kill me. As an adult she would still slap someone but it was getting rarer each year.

  13. I have a nickel allergy. So I can’t wear jeans without a rash forming on my stomach. Instead of finding alternative pants. I was forced to wear long tank tops tucked in and tight layers. I now only wear leggings and sweat pants and I finally enjoy my clothes.

  14. YTA. The divorce was fine. The telling your friends is fine. Telling his family and getting him banned from his home country. A bit far. Even telling the kids I am not against. You literally put this man’s life at risk.

  15. You can’t really be the asshole when your child is being manipulated by the mom. Your hands are tired until the daughter can finally make her own decisions about you. NTA.

  16. YTA. Why don’t you just go straight to our moms face and tell her you hate her without being vindictive and passive aggressive. You say in your comments you want a relationship with your mom but continue to push her away. You purposefully choose to be miserable while around her instead of talking to her. Your mom made a terrible decision while you were young and you treat her terribly because of it. If you can’t forgive and build a relationship with her, than leave her alone.

  17. I used to work for a manufacturer of GSCs. It's a total racket. Everyone except the girls are making 60%+ margin. Total trash business model.

  18. This. Absolutely this. If you want to support the troop, donate to them. If you want cookies, buy them at the store. They are just as good. I stopped buying GSC when they reached $3.50 a box.

  19. Absolutely NTA. So… you fiancé doesn’t want YOU in the photos. He wants someone that looks like you in the photos.

  20. You should tell Stacy. Let her know what she is marrying in to. If you just did it at her wedding you would YTA.

  21. NTA. You wife sounds absolutely selfish and disgusting.

  22. Everyone on here is saying she is the asshole, but me being poor and living in America… yeah no one should ever call an ambulance for me. If the injury doesn’t kill me the debt will.

  23. You can literally put your entire story aside and you wouldn’t be the asshole. You can walk away from a marriage at any point if you don’t want to be in it. Trauma doesn’t have to happen. You are not trapped. You don’t have to go through a ton of counseling to make the decision to end a relationship who know isn’t working for you. NTA.

  24. Did you ever find a solution to your her pain?

  25. Kind of? Im still not sure what it is but I think it’s because I sleep on my stomach which. Causes me to point my feet all night. So I am wearing a brace at night the keeps it bent. It work most of the time.

  26. Tell me you don’t know how to drive… without telling me you don’t know how to drive.

  27. NTA. Like your wife is a grow women. What happens if you are at work and an emergency happened, what is she gonna do then? She is just as equally responsible as an adult and should be able to figure things out. Also, you don’t know her body. If she really thought it was an emergency there is an ambulance.

  28. I feel like this is a big cultural thing. In my eyes, you are NTA. If anyone steps foot in my place, they get something to drink and a snack minimum. It’s Midwest hospitality. However, you wife may have a different view in things and maybe you too should get on the same page.

  29. NTA. I have the same pet names for my dogs and my husband. They are pet names. He is making it weird.

  30. My mother regularly bested me. She doesn’t remember. Then when I tell her, she says I am lying. It all happened. It’s real. Don’t let her gaslight you.

  31. YTA. Hiring a moving company is expensive. All your friends expected was a meal for their time.

  32. They literally could not afford it. What would you have them do?

  33. They afforded their own meal. They could have prepared in advance and used that money for food to share with their friends in their new home. A burger and drink is $10 -- They could have made a pot of soup and bought a load of nice bread and had money left from the aforementioned $10.

  34. Sure. I understand that. But it’s a bit hard to prepare food in a place you just moved too. With all your dishes and cooking utensils packed away.

  35. You are not at fault for his situation. The issue wasn't three strawberries. You told him what you needed from him, and he went ahead and disrespected you, repeatedly. You left him with a month's rent, which was plenty generous. NTA

  36. Right. Like I feel the biggest arguments against OP being justified is

  37. I don't disagree that OP is not the asshole for the moving out part, but moving out without saying anything is absolutely ridiculous, immature and definitely an asshole move. OP says that they 'gave up 3 weeks of rent' but 3 weeks is not a lot of time to find someone new, especially if the roommate only finds out he has to find someone new after half that time has already passed. ESH at least, if not YTA

  38. He is not on the lease and the guy has 3 weeks to get a new roommate. How in the world is he am asshole?

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