1. NTA. Would it be possible to have childcare at the venue? This way you can go and check in with him.

  2. Thank you 🙏 I'm trying to get her to talk to me again so we can discuss this option, hopefully she'll be done cooling off soon, and we can get something like this figured out, because it does alleviate like 90% of my concerns I'd just need some help with the cost, my parents already said they'd chip in.

  3. NTA. Don’t apologise, there’s nothing to be “forgiven” for. Let the trash take itself out. I wonder why you feel so guilty about a grown adult acting like a toddler?

  4. Thank you. I just have a hard time because they're my family but they've been like this my whole life, setting and keeping my own boundaries and standards has always been hard, because they always pressure me to budge on everything, so even though I know in the logical part of my brain that I'm not being unreasonable, I still feel sh*tty, ya know?

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