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  1. Grow up..and go deal with your issues. I have learnt that hurting people hurt people. So I'm not going to waste time fighting with you .Only God can fight my battles.May the Lord forgive you 🙏

  2. Love doesn't have a time line! Everyone goes at their own pace with these kinds of things. Obviously you wanna be cautious. Like a previous comment said, dont go moving in next week or getting married in a month 😅 I'm also speaking from experience, it can't take months (if not years) for someone's true colors to show.

  3. Ah, the joys of falling in love. Yes, keep on with it and savor the feeling. Just don't do anything reckless like move in with them after a couple weeks. You have every right to he enamored :-)

  4. Lol thank you. I just thought it was weird because I have been told that talking stages should last for 3 months .But I will be more cautious

  5. I'm a woman in her early 20s who has never been in a serious relationship before. My dating life is significantly improving ever since I started praying and having faith that God will bless me with the right person 💯 😊. I now attract better quality guys who are looking for something serious. Don't stress yourself dear, focus on growing spiritually and believe God will bless you with the right person 💯 😊

  6. As an average looking woman who has been using dating apps for months I can say that it's easy for us to get matches but it's kinda difficult to find the right partner .

  7. I'm the same age and I'm also lost. I just don't know what to do anymore. Mind you I also have wifi and a laptop at home but I'm still stranded .

  8. You are unlikely to find partners who are going to want to remain celibate until marriage on dating apps. Dating apps are used for hookups and relationships that are sexually active. The most you can hope for is matching with a good person who is willing to take things very, very, very slow.

  9. You are right I think I should just modify my standards a little bit because in this day and age it's very hard to find someone who is on the same page as me.Thank you

  10. Okay I’m going to use a gross/depressing metaphor But it puts things in perspective.

  11. Bro let me tell you something. Being single has nothing to do with the way you like. I have seen ugly people in relationships and very attractive people who have never been in relationships. So finding someone who really loves you its like winning the lottery .

  12. Hey are you me?I'm the same age as you and I have also been experiencing the same thing. Guys do initially show interest in me but for some reason they always lose it.I am also shy and introverted so maybe that's the reason why they lose interest. I feel your pain .Most guys don't like introverts but you will find someone who likes you just the way you are. We are still young girl!,we are still left with plenty of time to be in relationships.

  13. Girl it really does not matter what men prefer. Just accept yourself the way you are, men love confidence more than physical appearance, so don't be hard on yourself.

  14. You haven't met him in real life and he already said you are wife materials? Sounds to me that he is just randomly saying. Most people wouldn't call someone wife materials unless they dated 2-3 months and have time to know each other. Also don't give up. Online dating is hard. Also good advice is if you have a good conversation via texting 3-4 days, immediately go out to have a coffee. Don't waste your time texting someone 2 weeks or more . You need to at least have 50 first dates to find a partner. Before I met my partner, i also met so many people, and most disappeared after 1-2 dates. You just need to keep trying. Good luck with you.

  15. Anything said on line means absolutely nothing. It's too easy to lie.

  16. That's good.My rule is no sex before marriage and it also helped me weed out the players

  17. You asked God for what exactly when you prayed? You then mention the guy disappeared. A part of God guiding is removing. Many people are liars online and cannot always immediately be trusted to be telling the truth.

  18. You are absolutely right. The holy spirit warned about online dating but I did it anyway and later faced the consequences. Thank you so much ,this gave me alot of insight...

  19. Hey there:) I’m sorry you’re going through this, if it helps, know you’re not alone. I am 27 and have dealt with very similar situations like the ones you mentioned. It can be very tricky when we try our best to follow God’s principles but at the same time loneliness can be a very painful outcome sometimes. It took me a long time to find a balance that helped me keep a strong relationship with God, but also I was able to find people that truly wanted to follow bible principles and understood me. I would be more than happy to chat with you and be here for you, the bible can give us great comfort and explanations to why God acts a certain way or why we suffer. Feel free to DM me anytime to chat :))

  20. Hey I'm also a black woman in her early twenties who has never been in a serious relationship. Just like you I used generalize men (still do).I know it's hard to believe but some men do have good intentions, so you do have to be vulnerable in order to find someone.You have to risk getting your heart broken for a few times before you meet the right person. I know it's easier said than done,but you have to conquer your fears because you might never know what life has in store for you. Be willing to take risks but beware of red flags and cut off the person who is not treating you right. All the best girl!

  21. That’s fair. I guess I meant that women always have to deal with the unwanted attention. For example, my sister is single, and she mentioned that her butcher hit on her, and now she doesn’t want to go back to him, as she feels uncomfortable. I personally don’t have to deal with situations like these, so I just meant my single life is quieter than a woman’s would likely be, which makes it easier for me to be content and unbothered than it is for a woman that gets unwanted attention.

  22. As someone who has been online dating on and off for 9 years and now in a relationship with someone better than I could ever ask for (we had our 1 year anniversary recently), don’t give up. It’s not just about being in the right mind set or being the better person. It’s about being at the right place at the right time. I am very lucky and you will get lucky if you keep putting yourself out there.

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