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AITA for making my daughter use dollar store shampoo and conditioner

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AITA for telling my son his house was dirty and his wife needed a shower

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AITA for wearing a first gen sash to my graduation against my dad’s wife’s wishes?

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AITA for cancelling mother's day celebration that I arranged for my wife after hearing what she told my son?

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  1. or like if he found a nice cheesecake to get for dessert instead of destroying the meal she had planned

  2. Or he could have been dessert. This guy had so many other options but this. Bless his heart. Op is nta

  3. YTA I hope Seth says neither you or you husband can come to the wedding. Especially since you two are haters.

  4. YTA you should have told your husband immediately and then next you two should have contacted an attorney and the police! There’s got to be more cameras!!

  5. If he is licensed in finances or medicine or even law there are too many to list he could loose his license if she leaked any of that data and it was traced back to the husband.

  6. NTA but you’re not keeping them from seeing the kids. You’re keeping them from seeing them during your time. When they are with your ex your parents can go see them over there so keep that in mind.

  7. NTA. You need to leave your husband. I get it I get it. You love him. You have so much time and heart beated in this relationship. But if you do get the courage to leave please let this guy know so he can save his children from this monster otherwise you are just as bad as everyone involved.

  8. Even if you don’t. He needs to know. You very well can be the key that saves his children. They will feel it. Even if she never says it to them. If she is this disgusting about her future stepchildren. Tell their mom then. Jesus. Do something to save these kids.

  9. Oh my god. The screaming , cursing amd then falling asleep part..this triggered me so much. He used to do that always while I was hysterically crying for a long time. He fell asleep in like seconds and it baffled me how could he treat me like that be so aggressive , belittle me , scream at me and curse so much making me have a breakdown and then fall asleep in seocnds..all these nights..I couldn't fall asleep until early morinig because everytime I was so heartbroken I couldn't get my mind free and just go to sleep.

  10. OMG not only falls asleep quick but then has the audacity to sleep soundly then wake up in the am like nothing happened. If you dare still be hurt then you’re too sensitive or have mental health issues. Your just crazy. Bc they are great!

  11. What is this? I had the same experience. I assumed it was a medical issue but is it a narc thing?

  12. I mean anyone can be abusive but if you mean the falls asleep sound part I think it has to do with their grandiosity they feel towards themselves. Also Bc they have been low on the supply that you provide which they can’t get until they can get a response out of you. Then when they get their release they can sleep. I don’t know I’m not a psychologist but I have been with one for 24 years and he won’t be seeing al25 with me.

  13. Me Bc I’m told I’m the verbal abused. I’m the liar. I’m the cheat. So much and so consistently but more importantly he says it with so much heart. He really believes it. I have been here for so long Bc I was afraid it was me for so long. At this point he treats me so bad and we’re so toxic that it doesn’t matter which one of us it is my kids need a healthy environment where they don’t have to walk on thin ice and be so anxious. I’ve allowed them to suffer for FAR TOO long Bc I was so afraid.

  14. I feeeeel this. And to be honest. I did lie. I lied cuz I didn't feel safe. I lied cuz I didn't trust him. I lied because I needed to protect my little bubble. And that just gave him more ammo. He held that over my head and made me feel like the monster while all the while he was keeping secrets.

  15. Oh you’re right I lied to keep him happy. They were about how long I was somewhere or whether I stopped and came straight home. I’d say after arguing yes I did make a stop even though I came straight home and it just took that long. They were never like I cheated and lied. I know a lie is a lie but they were always pleasing to him lies. Maybe that makes sense maybe not.

  16. Research and study boundaries with a narcissist. Bc if you get ahold of your boundary issues you will see that you can just be in the moment without feeling responsible to rennet to give an account for everything. Narcs break down your boundaries leaving you feeling responsible for more than just being in the present. I mean you find yourself thinking I have to remember all of this so I can explain myself Bc that’s how the narc has trained you. Dm me if you need anything. Good luck. You can do this!

  17. For what? To learn the material? If you know all the material and ace all the tests, why are you supposed to be there?

  18. No your suppose to be there to be taught how to be a good EMPLOYEE. School is an institution set up for to house the children of workers. It’s akin to prison. You are locked in a building you can’t eat, get water, get out of your seat or go to the bathroom without permission. If you don’t go to school then your rhinkingnoutside or the ox you have been placed into. That’s causes you to have a freer mind. What will you do with that free mind? Become an entrepreneur Bc your mind tells you can do whatever you want. To be one you have to believe. If you psychologically believe you can’t go to the bathroom without permission how to conceive the idea that I can start a business? Easy- you can’t! Instead you go and do what the school trained you to do- get a job and go to work show you to the same place everyday for the same clock in and out and not complain! I know. I went from corporate to being a teacher to help kids think outside the box of this room with white walls.

  19. “That I doubt your my kid! Don’t ask me for shit!” I’m assuming. He is such a major DICK! As is the wife!

  20. Where the F is mom in all of this? Can't she buy her daughter conditioner? Sounds like the Dad "rules the roost" Why didn't she learn to care for her daughters hair? Im disgusted by this post. I hope this poor kid moves out the minute she's 18 and never looks back!

  21. If she’s lucky it will be at 17 because her birthday falls after she graduates!!

  22. NTA you did what you had to do for your kid! You can’t ever be TA when you are doing what’s in the best interest of your kids. This is not the moral AITA!

  23. Right. WTF indeed. Just Bc I have ADHD doesn’t mean I lack empathy in fact my freaking problem is I’m an empath. Which further aspirates my ADHD Bc now I’m doing more that I can’t focus long enough to get done!

  24. NTA. Any chance you can have her come stay with you for maybe 2-3 weeks and help her not be 💯 caregiver but maybe she can go out a few nights during the week after putting the kids to sleep. It’s less then ideal but if her husband ghosted her she’s hurting and your concern needs to be the kids Bc at this point your sister very well could be loosing her mind and that’s a recipe for disaster. Still NOT your responsibility just your choice! Hope everything works out for everyone. I definitely wouldn’t do the whole summer alone that’s crazy which what’s leading me to believe she is mentally and emotionally on edge!

  25. In California, regardless of it being in your backyard, many cities require a permit to cut it down. I don’t know if it’s the same in NC, but you should investigate. My dad is cutting down a tree for similar foundation/too close to house reasons, and the permit itself is well over $1k. He’s still waiting on approval. Some trees end up being called ‘heritage trees’ (or something like that), because they are considered a benefit to the neighborhood, and cutting them down will incur hefty fines. You should check out the tree law subreddit, they might be able to help.

  26. I have friends in NC it’s nothing like Ca! We had a tree (Ca) that was practically half dead the county wouldn’t let us cut it down. Saying that although it was on our property (front) the county planted it and therefore it’s not our tree- but our responsibility to maintain but we could t cut it down. Fast forward five years the county beautified the sidewalks. Then demanded we cut the tree down to fit their new sidewalk plans. Well I still had the letter to show them that it was their tree! Needless to say they didn’t cut the tree down and had to change their sidewalk plans leaving me with more of my land!

  27. So long as you’re sure you’re not going to get in trouble for cutting down a white oak or something like that, I don’t know that there’s any other way your neighbors could push it. They could probably make life kind of suck if there’s enough of them, but otherwise they’re not gonna be able to stop you anyway.

  28. They can’t make life suck Bc OP lives in Ca is going to rent out the house. Go back to Ca lol. The neighbors can’t be mad at the tenants but they sound crazy enough! 😂😂😂

  29. I'm sorry for you too with the instant panic and having to keep your phone on silent. I went no contact a little while ago and also changed my phone number (separate reasons). It is more peaceful not hearing from him.

  30. Blocking them I a bit easier Bc unlike mute or turning it off all the messages are there. But blocking is amazing. C it gives u a mental health break!

  31. Make sure that sash is in the graduation picture you give them and make it your Christmas card picture! Take a close-up pic of just the sash and use it on every social media account and anywhere else you can think of! LOL!

  32. Might as well get a tattoo 😂😂😂I’m here for all the pettiness!!!!

  33. NTA. My dog has been with me on my worst and best days of my life!

  34. There’s is not enough information though. Depending on what the prenup says. Usually prenups are for things you had before coming in. If you earn income then buy a house after you’re married then that’s community property. But depends on the prenup and jurisdiction. But if the prenup doesn’t specify post martial assets also then YTA.

  35. YTA. When I had baby #2 baby #1 was with my mom from labor until baby was born. Then immediately after baby#2 was picked up to meet baby #1. Night one baby stayed at My parents. Baby had to go to NICU I stayed at the hospital every night hubby went home to be baby #1 at night and woke up with our kid at home and took baby #1 to my parents during the day to come to the hospital.

  36. God damn this shit breaks my heart. He lost his mom young and he just wants to celebrate Mother’s Day with his stepmom. Now half of what’s supposed to be his family are bullying and isolating him, openly saying they don’t want him with them on arguably the biggest family holiday of the year.

  37. It’s even more then half Bc he has three in this family and 2/3 slate bullying him. Poor kid.

  38. My heart hurt for him when I read about him trying to convince her that he’d be social so that he could go. This would be my hill to die on and I would leave her.

  39. I said the same quote about this better be the hill op is willing to DIE on!

  40. Mine would do things like ask me what I wanted from the store when picking up groceries and then not buy it and not explain either. It is psychological conditioning and training, control and abuse.

  41. Mine would go get himself and our kids food and say he forgot about me. Until one day it occurred to me- what did you Bc or get! That you had a wife or that your kids have a mother?? The mother they’re home with.

  42. That’s one of their tells of a narc. Or they’ll say the most horrid stuff you couldn’t even imagine to say to someone you hate nonetheless to someone you love you calmly as if they were saying I love you. THEN when you react like a human and get hurt or change your tone mostly from whole mind you- they calmly say ‘look at you what’s wrong with you are you ok? Look at how I’m talking to you calmly and you’re acting crazy. I didn’t say anything that wasn’t true’. Whew! I’m still dealing with this but now I’ve grown a thicker skin and I do NOT engage!

  43. Continue to be strong. Remember this truth you’re already so far ahead of some of us who have yet to find the courage to leave! Don’t go back. If we could join you some of us would!

  44. I’m confused - your nephew is 3 months old and your sister is pregnant again. Supposedly she had your nephew when she was really young and this new baby is planned (yet only three months later?!).

  45. 3m stands for age and sex. Meaning baby’s is 3 year old male🥺🥺😔😔

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