1. “I know my worth” makes me lol, & in-fact makes me re-evaluate their worth & then in turn, why, as someone of “my worth”, I am choosing to pursue them.

  2. Cities where get togethers like this happen are Houston, LA, San Diego, Miami/Keys, NYC, Las Vegas and more recently Nashville.

  3. “Sex without a condom feels great, but so does not having HIV, Herpes or a myriad of other STIs(treatable and not)”

  4. It’s so funny to see y’all call viewpoints like this ‘pointless’

  5. There are some positives here, it's not all negative. There are some silver linings. For one, you saw something you wanted and you were confident enough to ask for it. Alot of girls would have been too shy to make the first move on a guy, especially an older one. And, even better, you knew what you wanted and you weren't willing to accept his counter-offer of a hookup. Alot of girls might not have been assertive enough to say no.

  6. Thank you this is a really nice comment :,)

  7. This this & this. Stay on mission and focused. Closed mouths don’t get fed. This didn’t work out. Do not slight yourself. You’d be kicking yourself if you didn’t try.

  8. This this & this. Stay on mission and focused. Closed mouths don’t get fed. This didn’t work out. Do not slight yourself. You’d be kicking yourself if you didn’t try.

  9. Add to your seeking section. That speaks more than a bio/profile. Remove the platonic tag unless you really mean it and that’s your boundary. My fellow sd next those profiles right away typically. Otherwise your beautiful and seem like an easy going fun person. I’m rooting for you.

  10. You should care if a genuine connection matters to you. Someone who is separated typically doesn’t sleep in the same bed or get them anniversary gifts. Also, as important as my job is, when my sb texts me, I text back right away. I want her to know & feel she’s important.

  11. At your next in-person meet, tell him that your love language is texting. This current situation is a little too passive aggressive for my tastes. You both like each other, but he’s not putting the pedal on the gas. You may have to help him or it may always be this way until you get bored and resentful…hence…lose interest.

  12. Your expectations are reasonable. Great profile aside, I wouldn’t meet up with anyone unless I could firmly establish that I’m attracted as well to what they look like.

  13. It be very helpful if you Google the topic of decline of testosterone in men In our times and read as much as possible ,

  14. Have you ever heard about a recent invention called STD testing?

  15. Yes, testing is for detection, which is another component to this. As for the other stuff, we’re talking about limiting risks for exposure.

  16. Tell me more about you—- read my profile and get back to me.

  17. You actually hit the nail on the head. He’s conflicted bc he is likely in his head and crazy about you. You need to sit him down and tell him to relax and remind him that you get to make your own decisions & have feelings about the sr too.

  18. You need to be careful bc of your employment. It’s tricky. I’ve had more success lately as a SD in the real world off SA Etc. with Bars, beach & coffee shops. A server I met a few months ago in another state who I haven’t seen since, just started following me on IG after I slipped her $ and a note. I also expressed how a srl could work for us when I come back. She didn’t say anything to that, at the time. 🤷‍♂️

  19. I am extremely busy sometimes from 7am to 11pm daily. I always make time for family and the woman I’m involved with. Texts or calls returned within hours or minutes. I’m happy to make time.

  20. When SBs wonder why many SDs are transactional, they just need to read this thread.

  21. I love coffee m&gs, but reluctantly go to Starbucks. We usually sit outside at a table or go for a walk with our drinks. I have no issue with stares either, it stokes my ego. I’m there for her & me, not them.

  22. I’d bet more than you’d think…. Nothing like credit cards and beautiful women to get you into debt lol

  23. I have several broke friends that have multiple sb. They barely get by & it amazes me how many women they fool, plus they end or stall the sr until the next pay day comes around again. 🤦‍♂️

  24. I live in a very poor area, drive an old car, and can’t wear any nice clothes without standing out like a sore thumb. I keep my high end wardrobe at my vacay home nobody knows about in a far-away cosmopolitan city.

  25. Congrats!!!🎉🍾🎈🎊 You’ve been a sb for 2 whole months and now you are uprooting your life, moving in with a couple and getting married. Pls reread this sentence, & do you get DatelineNBC in Canada? 👀

  26. Is your profile attracting pot sds to reach out to you? The last sentence of your about me section is off putting. Always be approachable and inviting if you really want to attack. Also, put more substance in your profile. Sds don’t want to do the werk. They want to know what’s up from the jump.

  27. The only thing that’s stopping me is the thought that I’m not on his level because he is in medical school and can date much more successful girls than me

  28. That comment tells me you’re getting lost in your own head. If you’re pretty, nice and have chemistry, make your move, bc that’s more important than any successful girl his age. He may actually be nervous about making the first move bc he’s the tutor.

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