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  1. Would you mind elaborating more on 3 around how to maybe best validate your experiences and/or hurt?

  2. I (a AP) started acting this way with my (DA) bf after we were in a few months rough patch and he broke up with me and instantly "came back" after, and since its like I feel he's the one being all vulnerable instead of me begging for him to be. He's been asking for extra kisses, and cuddles, and says i love you first, and asks to hang out, its honestly wild. I think as long as you think of them like a scared puppy and always frame things so they think they have control (would you like to hang out at all if you have time vs are we hanging out tonight) they seem to be fine and actually do seem to let themselves become attached to you, even though to them they don't even subconsciously realize.

  3. This sounds like my avoidant bf who after 4 months I'm learning TRULY about. This was helpful. TY.

  4. I don't understand how your work has any right to someone's personal health records and choices that isn't even employed there... that sounds illegal.

  5. My ex did a similar shady thing, but instead of gifting bracelets, he'd play video games with 14 year old girls. He was 34 effing years old. He's a pedo or if not, he's grooming, or seeking attention because young girls are young and sometimes don't know any better about these old nasty men - all of which is disgusting. Just imagine all the other shady stuff you don't know about too - not only to maybe this young girl, but another young girl, or even other adult women.

  6. This is me and how I've felt for a long time. After seeing how exhausted close friends are with their children, and how they don't even have freedom for a "nap" I'm probably going to avoid children. I can't imagine wanting to go do something right then and there and I can't, or having to get up from laying down to go take care of someone with so many needs. An amazing partner would have to pretty much come along in my life and completely change my mind, as my partners I've had, I know I'd have to be doing most of the parenting... no thanks to all of that.

  7. Thank you for writing this. I'm sitting here crying out of nowhere because I've never read anything more relatable in my life around how I feel about my Narc ex. I can't put into words how much what you wrote means to me. The things I've been so unable to describe so perfectly after thousands of tries.

  8. I shave when I feel like it, and don't when I don't. I'll go months shaving 2x a week, then months where I don't shave once. I won't really go out in public with hairy legs longer than 1-2 weeks, just because its noticeable, but that's just me.

  9. My bf seriously loves kid movies. New and old. He's 31. Manly person. It's cute. Except when I don't want to watch kid movies sometimes.

  10. And a little bit of oil. A few more peppers. Some, some tomatoes. And a few more peppers. A little bit of mustard. Lettuce, a little lettuce. And a little bit more oil. A few more peppers.

  11. I doubt that a natural supplement will have much of an effect. She should try seeing a doctor as it could be due to a medical condition.

  12. This. And maybe couples therapy. Also try dating each other again (not saying this will work).

  13. Same. I have no advice. Just try to live your life with what makes you happy. That's the best realization you can come to.

  14. Cut him now. It sounds less like he has past issues with his ex and partying and more like a 'controller/narc' kind of person. Manipulation and abuse starts out like this. There is nothing good that ever comes of it. He is a grown ass man, and he wants to act weird or ignore you when you just met and you are with your friends like you planned and aren't dropping them for him when he wants? Let me tell you from experience, it will only get 10x worse from here and you will end up with a shit ton of trauma after being controlled and manipulated for years if you let this continue. Please find anyone better. You are SO YOUNG. You have your entire life, trust me. Do not waste the best years of your life on this guy.

  15. Cut her out of your life, she's draining you mentally/emotionally and she doesn't respect you. This will cause trauma in the future with or without her.

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