I've never understood this. I don't think people realize how hard it is to ask for help and how desperate you have to be to do it. It is not at all helpful to tell someone that their problems are "not that bad" compared to other people's. All it does is make me never want to trust them again
I’m afraid of being essentially treated like a criminal: locked away in a hospital and having my autonomy taken away over something I said. I’m convinced that this is part of the reason why treatment is stigmatized so much.
I watched them take my sister out of my house and keep her in the hospital when I was 11 and she was 14, and then they wondered why I compartmentalized any issues i had
Reaching out and getting insulting cliché responses as if you haven't tried getting help at all because people think you're fucking retarded, and if you already tried getting help, you wouldn't still feel suicidal, because that's how help works in their feeble fucking minds because they're pieces of useless shit😎🤙Go Avs Go.
I have a friend who always bugs me about opening up. Then when I do it's just "that sucks man, what do you do." Like, yeah that's my point. There's no sense in talking about it, it gets me nowhere so just kind ys own business
Lmao came so close to ending it 5 years ago. My own dad told me to just do it and not try to get attention out of it. I was extremely lonely during that time in my life. So, next time it gets that bad, I will remember how little it mattered and I will just do what needs to be done.
Hey
or, "other people have it way worse than you so stop complaining."
“Homelessness and world hunger exist so you can’t be sad”
I hate when people say this so much. If anyone says this to me, I make a note of it.
Worse? Oh please, if they had my problems they'd give a shotgun a blowjob
just respond “other have it way better why would you be happy”
I've never understood this. I don't think people realize how hard it is to ask for help and how desperate you have to be to do it. It is not at all helpful to tell someone that their problems are "not that bad" compared to other people's. All it does is make me never want to trust them again
Just stop thinking about.
I've always hated that statement. Everyone has different breaking points. It doesn't make someone's plight any lesser than another's.
just go outside and make some friends bro
I’m afraid of being essentially treated like a criminal: locked away in a hospital and having my autonomy taken away over something I said. I’m convinced that this is part of the reason why treatment is stigmatized so much.
I watched them take my sister out of my house and keep her in the hospital when I was 11 and she was 14, and then they wondered why I compartmentalized any issues i had
Yep, complete with the inability to get certain jobs, and likely lose the one you have.
>having a minor mental meltdown
Holy fucking goddamned tit fucking fucked shit! So fucking true!
This but with family. Opening up to my family about my issue and being insulted for it was what hurt the most.
Me: "Things are looking pretty bad right now"
"things are bad right now" only bothers me because it ignores that things have always fucking sucked and they haven't really gotten worse
Reaching out and getting insulting cliché responses as if you haven't tried getting help at all because people think you're fucking retarded, and if you already tried getting help, you wouldn't still feel suicidal, because that's how help works in their feeble fucking minds because they're pieces of useless shit😎🤙Go Avs Go.
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I’m gonna assume you’re saying this because that’s another thing people say, and not calling op that
"I don't want to involve them in this, with enough time I'll get over this"
😁
Just get out of bed! All you need is to move around outside….🙄
exactly
you should be positive about killing yourself.
This right here hit home on a deeper level. Everyone wants to help until you ask for help.
What do you have to be upset about?
I have a friend who always bugs me about opening up. Then when I do it's just "that sucks man, what do you do." Like, yeah that's my point. There's no sense in talking about it, it gets me nowhere so just kind ys own business
My mom loved to tell me "The psychologist will tell you [insert Facebook motivational quote]" :D
They lie and say “I’m always here for you”, yet ignore or take days to respond and by that point you’re just done.
I have a friend like that. Still waiting for their reply.
“I feel like you guys don’t really care that deeply about my health, you just sort of want to keep me around”
That... hit a little too close to home. All my friends are this way...
If there’s one thing I learned, it’s that it isn’t if you reach out, it’s how you reach out that determines people’s reaction.
I got called an attention whore because my suicide attempt failed, so "how" you did it can be a very minor factor
You can sing the first bit to the tune of if you're happy and you know it
I'm sorry, complaining that you don't like pepperoni pizza doesn't count.
All the time
"Other people have it worse think about what you have"
Lmao came so close to ending it 5 years ago. My own dad told me to just do it and not try to get attention out of it. I was extremely lonely during that time in my life. So, next time it gets that bad, I will remember how little it mattered and I will just do what needs to be done.