Women aren’t as shallow in that regard though. There are many other things about a man that would make a woman attracted to him despite having a not so desirable body type. In the inverse, there aren’t much things that would make a woman attractive to a man
Yes, to an extent. I have seen beautiful, put together, women with body types that aren't typically my go to "type." Overall pride in oneself, and confidence can go a long way to make a woman attractive. For me, anyways.
This is true, but it can go too far. Attractive girls with a smug attitude like "you wish you could get up on this" are abhorrently unattractive to me. For example, Galadriel from Rings of Power. She is technically attractive, but her smarmy, smug attitude is a compete turn-off.
Yea, but the range of body types men find attractive is much wider than women think. Even so, some women with bodies outside that range can compensate with a nice skin, nice hair and a nice personality.
Yes and no. I like a chick with some cake and some titty. If she’s chubby then the fat adds to the cake and titty which is a win. There’s a reason why the phrase is “more cushion for the pushin”
yes but not in the way women think we do. “all men want are big asses and boobs.” i mean yea, that would be nice. but i feel like the vast majority of normal guys could care less. unless you’re disgustingly fat nobody really cares. if you’re good looking and have a normal natural body then boom you’re just fine.
Yes but what each individual man finds attractive is subjective. I'm personally more attracted to someone with some meat on the bone and who isn't hyperfocused about their weight to the point where we can't enjoy delicious food together.
I mean kinda? I'm not lying when I say I've been with every type of girl. Some girls with a "great body" isnt great in all the right places. I've been more attracted to girls with curves always. Sometimes more than just curves
There has to be at least an initial attraction on some level physically (unless it's just sex for some guys), but different people find different things attractive. Maybe a girl's smile could be enough, but [not all] guys become more attracted the closer they bond with that person. Basically, more frequent sex will often increase how attractive a man finds his partners body. Almost every guy I've discussed this has agreed, but I'm really interest in the perspective of people this is not true for.
Yes and no, as long as she takes care of her body ie shower and isn’t morbidly obese I will still care for her but more specifically if you are asking in terms of boobs tits ass that doesn’t matter to me personally it’s a nice added benefit but that’s it I don’t seek out women who have big tits or a big ass I also don’t care if they are skinny or chubby I’ve dated all kinds of women and love all kinds of women
Yes they do (Being honest to what I think when I do date her). Anything till chubby is fine, over that no it's not. Putting the science of mating and all that bullshit aside where potential mate has to be having good structure and all, atleast we like the girl to be able to carry herself properly(same goes for us guys).
Yes, honestly just look healthy. Like you put in a little bit of effort for your own well-being. You can be lighter, you can be heavier that doesn’t matter, all I know is I’ve never seen an unattractive girl working out.
I do and I pretty much like them thick. Being too thin is a bit worrying and I would like to have that peace of mind that my girl is healthy and will not be sick from her weight
Just so long as she takes care of herself for the most part its fine for me. That answer aside, some women do look better with a little meat on them than other women do, and vice versa. Example my friends long term girlfriend looked perfectly great body wise. She had a couple kids gained a little bit of mommy weight nothing bad at all. But she's shorter and for some reason has always worried about her weight even before kids. I get it 10lbs extra weight looks different on someone who's 5"3 than someone who is 6"1. She decided to get REALLY into exercising to lose some weight but honestly she is taking it maybe a bit far. My good friend loves her but did confide that he wished she still had some curves, his girl at this point has almost no curves! I was surprised, her ass is gone, her breasts are gone, and her arms and legs are ripped! My buddy still absolutely loves her, and says "Hey it's her body and she wants to be happy and healthy and I want that for her as well!" All in all they're both great people but he does miss those curves lol
Something I just can’t explain why, but when I have a crush that I like so much and that is more special to me I never bother to think about her body, like ever. Just face and personality. In fact, when those dirty thoughts come in, I block them out and just want innocent thoughts lol. Anyone relate?
Honestly it depends. Alot of times a girls natural state seems to be to obsess over imperfections. I dated a girl who was 5'9" and about 135. She could have gained 30 lbs and I wouldn't have even noticed unless she was sending me shopping for clothes. Dated another girl who was 5'2 and 200lbs but because of her shape I would have guessed 160lbs. Another girl gained like 80lbs while we were dating and I didn't actually notice until after she lost it again and I was looking at pictures from Christmas. I feel like it has a big impact on the initial attraction, but if you lost or gained 20lbs any given year no normal guys going to notice that, and after that the attitude and personality becomes 80% of what matters. So basically if someone is attracted to you and youre kind of in the same "league" then there's a lot of room for variance. However, if a girl is like the max size a guy can be attracted to and she gained 50lbs that might make him lose interest. And changes that happen due to childbirth is not going to make any normal guy lose attraction. But also, guys in general will sleep with a girl who is nowhere near cute enough to date. So no matter what he says about future potential, if he's not introducing you to friends and he's trying to sleep with you, he's definitely actively looking for someone more attractive.
Is that supposed to be rethorical? I've dated from 147 cm as shortest, to 209 cm as tallest. From unemployed, to three times my own income. These were not factors of interest when I chose them.
Of course. I'm not going to date a woman that bears a striking resemblance to a tree. I mean, first off, that would just make my Costco toilet paper horde awkward.
Yeah, people will try and tell you they don’t or give you some sappy shit. But the bottom line is that EVERYONE has a range of looks they are willing to date and there are going to be people that fall out of that range.
Yes, i like lots of types of bodies but generally for me they have to have a nice bum, not bothered much about boobs, and i dont like fat arms/bellies personally, nice and slim please, as long as they look after themselves im usually happy.
Regardless of what they tell you, absolutely. They will risk an entire relationship with someone who’s amazing, over a body lmao just focus on you hunny. It isn’t worth it. Too many of them will try justifying being with a person who doesn’t meet their body standards as well, while wishing the person they’re with looked like the people who meet their body standards, or cheat on them with those people, or fantasize about them obsessively, etc. Keep your head down low, go get dick when you want it, but make it clear that’s all you’re looking for, and keep working on you and building for you. Eventually a man worth his salt who’s genuine and is fully attracted to your body, because he’s emotionally mature enough to seek out only people he’s fully attracted to, will come along and compliment your life. If by chance he doesn’t, I promise you you’re gonna be way happier single. Guaranteed. Get off Reddit and go live.
Do girls actually care what a guy’s body looks like? Obviously. Almost nobody wants to date someone who doesn’t at least meet some minimum preferences.
yes we are, is a Woman is overweight or to skinny, did she have big boobs or a big ass or nothing. Woman do the same so why should Men not do it Physical attraction is the main reason to approach a Woman for Sex or a Relationship and when is no Physical attraction it gives no to approach her for that.
The answer isn't "yes, to an extent" or "yes and no", the answer is simply "yes". We care. Call it shallow if you want, but we're not fucking your personality. All of that personality stuff usually comes into play after we've figured out if we like you physically first which usually takes about 3 seconds.
Yes, some men have wide preferences (pun not intended). My general rule is i dont date a women if she is a horrible person and body is not as much of a concern, but i still wouldn't date someone over 300 pounds. There are plenty of men who do not care.
Soooo it depends on the person. I would say a majority care. It’s human nature. I may get some flack for saying this, but to me if I bust my butt to get my body in shape and eat right I feel my partner should at least try to put in a little effort to live a healthy lifestyle. Not only is it a looks thing but a health matter. Everyone has different body types, but I feel most people want a partner that cares and shows their body respect.
Yes and no i like different things I can like personality and not care if you don’t have a thicc body . Women with thicc body can be great but don’t have a great personality. This is my answer not an answer for every guy thoughts .
Yesn't. Me personally I repeat, me personally am more of a slider guy. What I mean by that is along as they fall in between 2 set criteria I don't particularly care besides hygiene ofc. My personal criteria are "not so thin that I'd snap you in half if I looked at you wrong" and "so fat that it not only impedes daily life but I also need to be on the constant lookout for Japanese whaling ships."
Definitely. Us men tend to have different preferences so I do not see why any man wouldn't find small breasts attractive. If you think none like them, that's an unhealthy generalization.
Yes, but probably not as much as the woman thinks we do. We don’t want perfect & a lot of the things a woman obsess over are actually some of the things that make us love her in the first place.
Yes. But that doesn't mean I have a fixed type or need a girl to look a certain way. I like a lot of different body types, but I have to like the body type.
Long answer: yes. Short answer: ye.
Unfortunately I can only upvote this once lol
This is the way
Yes but the range of body types we’re down for isn’t as narrow as some people might think
Yes, and the right personality has a weird way of changing a body type into the most desirable type for me.
Yeah exactly. I like what I like but what I like might not be what someone expects.
This is the most correct answer you'll get
Lol, not sure how this is a real question. In the overwhelming majority of cases for both men or women. Yes, people usually care.
Women aren’t as shallow in that regard though. There are many other things about a man that would make a woman attracted to him despite having a not so desirable body type. In the inverse, there aren’t much things that would make a woman attractive to a man
Yes
What kinda dumb ques...yes they do.
Yes, to an extent. I have seen beautiful, put together, women with body types that aren't typically my go to "type." Overall pride in oneself, and confidence can go a long way to make a woman attractive. For me, anyways.
This is true, but it can go too far. Attractive girls with a smug attitude like "you wish you could get up on this" are abhorrently unattractive to me. For example, Galadriel from Rings of Power. She is technically attractive, but her smarmy, smug attitude is a compete turn-off.
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Yea, but the range of body types men find attractive is much wider than women think. Even so, some women with bodies outside that range can compensate with a nice skin, nice hair and a nice personality.
Yep, why wouldn't we?
Honestly not that much. Face is way more important than body imo...but to me the most attractive thing about a woman is her attitude.
Do girls care about a guys body looks?
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Hell yea they care. When I was a power lifter a few years back, women were all over us. They were blatant.
To an extent. Most woman don't like muscles that look freakish and too veins.
Yes
Yes and no.
What if they are addicted to anti-aging drugs?
Yeah but you pay for your women .
Yes
No we just see amorphous shapes and shadows.
Different men have different standards, but yeah, men do care what her body looks like. The ones that don't are a rarity.
To a certain extent, yes
Yes and no. I like a chick with some cake and some titty. If she’s chubby then the fat adds to the cake and titty which is a win. There’s a reason why the phrase is “more cushion for the pushin”
One of my fathers buddy used to tell this joke to us
Yeah...
Aye, we be not whalers with great harpoons to pierce the blubber!
Yup
Yes, although different guys have different preferences.
yes but not in the way women think we do. “all men want are big asses and boobs.” i mean yea, that would be nice. but i feel like the vast majority of normal guys could care less. unless you’re disgustingly fat nobody really cares. if you’re good looking and have a normal natural body then boom you’re just fine.
Yes, but its not as strict as women seem to think it is. And its not nearly as important as ur face, ur personality, and hiw u treat us.
Yup.
Woman love what they hear and men love what they see. That’s why woman wear make up and men lie. - anonymous
Yes but what each individual man finds attractive is subjective. I'm personally more attracted to someone with some meat on the bone and who isn't hyperfocused about their weight to the point where we can't enjoy delicious food together.
Unless they’re blind yes most of the time
It's even worse when they're blind.
Personally if I'm attracted to their face the body would have to be pretty messed up for me to care.
Yes, to an extent. My girlfriend is physically the polar opposite of my ex, and both are beautiful women. I don’t pick up on little details tbh
You are basically asking if guys have standards.
Surprised there’s not more women in here shaming men for having standards. They can’t stand it
I like them a little thicc but yes.
Yes, but there's a range and some men like certain traits that others don't care about or might even be repulsed by. My 10 is another man's 2.
I care about the whole package. the whole person. how she acts, what does she do, what does she believe in, how does she present herself.
Yea absolutely. This is super shitty to admit but I broke up with a girl because she gained a lot of weight and I was no longer attracted to her.
No it’s only about what’s on the inside that counts! Lol jk no it matters a lot
Doesn’t hurt to get to know her insides either
Lol!!
Nah I could fuck a water balloon till it pops and still be happy. That's about all looks are worth is sex.
I mean kinda? I'm not lying when I say I've been with every type of girl. Some girls with a "great body" isnt great in all the right places. I've been more attracted to girls with curves always. Sometimes more than just curves
Yes, but not as much as women think we do.
100%, im not attracted to lazy body
Well in my case, I do care but it's more of an adoring type of "care"
There has to be at least an initial attraction on some level physically (unless it's just sex for some guys), but different people find different things attractive. Maybe a girl's smile could be enough, but [not all] guys become more attracted the closer they bond with that person. Basically, more frequent sex will often increase how attractive a man finds his partners body. Almost every guy I've discussed this has agreed, but I'm really interest in the perspective of people this is not true for.
I have my preferences and likes/dislikes, but generally, no - it doesn't really matter to me.
Nah man hit the gym and lose the excess weight. You want the reward without putting in the effort
Yes. But, a really pretty face can make up for a bad body. Same if a girl has an awesome bod and a butterface. To an extent.
Yes and no, as long as she takes care of her body ie shower and isn’t morbidly obese I will still care for her but more specifically if you are asking in terms of boobs tits ass that doesn’t matter to me personally it’s a nice added benefit but that’s it I don’t seek out women who have big tits or a big ass I also don’t care if they are skinny or chubby I’ve dated all kinds of women and love all kinds of women
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I would not date a woman who has 12 eyes!
Alcazar?
EYEHOLES!
Yes, most men don't want to date someone obese
You mean those whales.
Girls usually look good. In most body types unless they are obese
Yes
Yes definitely. This is a ridiculous question.
Preferences differ, but we 100% do care.
If I want a relationship with her that involves reproductive activities YES. I DO CARE.
If she's got a relatively normal/average body but a pretty/cute face and a kind personality, that's all I care about.
Yes they do (Being honest to what I think when I do date her). Anything till chubby is fine, over that no it's not. Putting the science of mating and all that bullshit aside where potential mate has to be having good structure and all, atleast we like the girl to be able to carry herself properly(same goes for us guys).
Yes, but it doesn't have to be perfect. A girl who is fun and sexual but in okay shape will always get my attention over a boring girl in great shape.
Yes, honestly just look healthy. Like you put in a little bit of effort for your own well-being. You can be lighter, you can be heavier that doesn’t matter, all I know is I’ve never seen an unattractive girl working out.
Yes we do, but I think the social view for men preferring body types is heavily skewed.
Yes but we're not as picky as you think.
I do and I pretty much like them thick. Being too thin is a bit worrying and I would like to have that peace of mind that my girl is healthy and will not be sick from her weight
Just so long as she takes care of herself for the most part its fine for me. That answer aside, some women do look better with a little meat on them than other women do, and vice versa. Example my friends long term girlfriend looked perfectly great body wise. She had a couple kids gained a little bit of mommy weight nothing bad at all. But she's shorter and for some reason has always worried about her weight even before kids. I get it 10lbs extra weight looks different on someone who's 5"3 than someone who is 6"1. She decided to get REALLY into exercising to lose some weight but honestly she is taking it maybe a bit far. My good friend loves her but did confide that he wished she still had some curves, his girl at this point has almost no curves! I was surprised, her ass is gone, her breasts are gone, and her arms and legs are ripped! My buddy still absolutely loves her, and says "Hey it's her body and she wants to be happy and healthy and I want that for her as well!" All in all they're both great people but he does miss those curves lol
Definitely but it's just some subconscious gesture, not that deep
Depends on the context of the question and what you mean by “care.”
Something I just can’t explain why, but when I have a crush that I like so much and that is more special to me I never bother to think about her body, like ever. Just face and personality. In fact, when those dirty thoughts come in, I block them out and just want innocent thoughts lol. Anyone relate?
Yes, but probably not as much as you do.
Honestly it depends. Alot of times a girls natural state seems to be to obsess over imperfections. I dated a girl who was 5'9" and about 135. She could have gained 30 lbs and I wouldn't have even noticed unless she was sending me shopping for clothes. Dated another girl who was 5'2 and 200lbs but because of her shape I would have guessed 160lbs. Another girl gained like 80lbs while we were dating and I didn't actually notice until after she lost it again and I was looking at pictures from Christmas. I feel like it has a big impact on the initial attraction, but if you lost or gained 20lbs any given year no normal guys going to notice that, and after that the attitude and personality becomes 80% of what matters. So basically if someone is attracted to you and youre kind of in the same "league" then there's a lot of room for variance. However, if a girl is like the max size a guy can be attracted to and she gained 50lbs that might make him lose interest. And changes that happen due to childbirth is not going to make any normal guy lose attraction. But also, guys in general will sleep with a girl who is nowhere near cute enough to date. So no matter what he says about future potential, if he's not introducing you to friends and he's trying to sleep with you, he's definitely actively looking for someone more attractive.
Yeah. And in some capacity, what her mom looks like too - to see what the future probably holds for her as well
Do women actually care what a guys bank account and height are?
Ding Ding Ding
Is that supposed to be rethorical? I've dated from 147 cm as shortest, to 209 cm as tallest. From unemployed, to three times my own income. These were not factors of interest when I chose them.
I've come to the conclusion I only really care about the lower half.
Nothing shallow about that. There is a reason biologically men look for certain cues in regards to a womens body
Of course. I'm not going to date a woman that bears a striking resemblance to a tree. I mean, first off, that would just make my Costco toilet paper horde awkward.
I just asked my bf - he says: yes, very much, but not in the way women think. And the way he looks at me right now I feel a lecture coming on...
Yes.
Definitely. The face is #1 but she can't be obese or have a completely flat ass.
Yes.
Of course! the body is the key factor in our attraction to females
Yeah, people will try and tell you they don’t or give you some sappy shit. But the bottom line is that EVERYONE has a range of looks they are willing to date and there are going to be people that fall out of that range.
Just stay healthy don't get too fat that goes for every one we should all strive to be chiseled with Godly figure
Yes, i like lots of types of bodies but generally for me they have to have a nice bum, not bothered much about boobs, and i dont like fat arms/bellies personally, nice and slim please, as long as they look after themselves im usually happy.
Yes. And that not something to be shamed for. Woman don’t want a big slob sweating and breathing all over them either.
dumb ass question. No shit... must live in a damn bubble
Regardless of what they tell you, absolutely. They will risk an entire relationship with someone who’s amazing, over a body lmao just focus on you hunny. It isn’t worth it. Too many of them will try justifying being with a person who doesn’t meet their body standards as well, while wishing the person they’re with looked like the people who meet their body standards, or cheat on them with those people, or fantasize about them obsessively, etc. Keep your head down low, go get dick when you want it, but make it clear that’s all you’re looking for, and keep working on you and building for you. Eventually a man worth his salt who’s genuine and is fully attracted to your body, because he’s emotionally mature enough to seek out only people he’s fully attracted to, will come along and compliment your life. If by chance he doesn’t, I promise you you’re gonna be way happier single. Guaranteed. Get off Reddit and go live.
Yes!
Of course
Yes, I actually care.
Yes for sure!
I care. It need to decent. Most look decent to me.
Hell yeah I do.
No, but gals being insecure about their bodies and stuff like that tends to sabotage things more than anything else.
Sure do
Yes. Indeed. We care. We care a lot.
Yep. Nothing worse than a cute faced girl who’s also fat as hell. So much wasted potential.
I like ‘em with one saggy long deflated boob, and one big perky round one. Doesn’t matter which is which though, I’m not particular.
Do girls actually care what a guy’s body looks like? Obviously. Almost nobody wants to date someone who doesn’t at least meet some minimum preferences.
Yes we care unless we are blind ;)
yes we are, is a Woman is overweight or to skinny, did she have big boobs or a big ass or nothing. Woman do the same so why should Men not do it Physical attraction is the main reason to approach a Woman for Sex or a Relationship and when is no Physical attraction it gives no to approach her for that.
Yes
Of course.
a great body cant save no personality or a total B.
Yes
Everyone cares about how their partner’s body to a point, some more than others
Dur
no, lost any interest. I hope it's not coming back :/
Yes.
The answer isn't "yes, to an extent" or "yes and no", the answer is simply "yes". We care. Call it shallow if you want, but we're not fucking your personality. All of that personality stuff usually comes into play after we've figured out if we like you physically first which usually takes about 3 seconds.
Yes, some men have wide preferences (pun not intended). My general rule is i dont date a women if she is a horrible person and body is not as much of a concern, but i still wouldn't date someone over 300 pounds. There are plenty of men who do not care.
Yes
Of course.
Yes.
Mostly
Soooo it depends on the person. I would say a majority care. It’s human nature. I may get some flack for saying this, but to me if I bust my butt to get my body in shape and eat right I feel my partner should at least try to put in a little effort to live a healthy lifestyle. Not only is it a looks thing but a health matter. Everyone has different body types, but I feel most people want a partner that cares and shows their body respect.
What kind of question.. yes
Unless she is carelessly unhealthy, no not really.
We're on the same page here. As long as she's healthy, idc
Yes ofc, im not gonna date some hippopotamus moto moto looking ass creature.
In real life as long as they’re not anorexic or past chubby with cool with whatever.
Yes. Physical attraction is a necessity
Yeah but not as much as you probably think.
Its all pink in the middle
Not sure if OP's arrow is broken or warped.
Yes but i don't expect you to have some Victoria Secret model body type when you work a 9to5. If you take care of yourself, that's enough.
I am with the best looking girl i know. She cares for her body, hair and skin. And. It. shows.
of course we care. i would date any girl (except the fat chicks)
Not to drag you down but bold of you to assume those women even like you
Yes but they will settle for anything if they are desperate
some yes, some no. anyway all mens have different tastes of bodies.
Right! Preference and intentions are all different among men
Yes and no i like different things I can like personality and not care if you don’t have a thicc body . Women with thicc body can be great but don’t have a great personality. This is my answer not an answer for every guy thoughts .
Yeh. A lot of us won’t say that though because we just wanna be loved for the most part of it
Yes, but not details.
Yes
Yesn't. Me personally I repeat, me personally am more of a slider guy. What I mean by that is along as they fall in between 2 set criteria I don't particularly care besides hygiene ofc. My personal criteria are "not so thin that I'd snap you in half if I looked at you wrong" and "so fat that it not only impedes daily life but I also need to be on the constant lookout for Japanese whaling ships."
Yes, absolutely. It's maybe the #1 factor in attraction (or maybe the face).
Yes,like a girl should be healthy physically else there's no problem..
For sure.
100% yes. But probably not as much as the girl does.
Yes, young, healthy and all the other fertility cues please.
Yes.
Do any man find woman with small breasts attractive?
Definitely. Us men tend to have different preferences so I do not see why any man wouldn't find small breasts attractive. If you think none like them, that's an unhealthy generalization.
As ever, the questions asked here reveal most about the questioner...
Absolutely!! No fatties!!
Yes, but probably not as much as the woman thinks we do. We don’t want perfect & a lot of the things a woman obsess over are actually some of the things that make us love her in the first place.
Yes. Physical health of a person factors into attraction.
In general, yes.
Not alot, but i must be able to wrap my arms around her as well as cant be a biology class skeleton
Sure.
When I was younger? Of course! But as you get older and evolve, it's more about the connection than the appearance.
Yes.
Yes
Depends per person. Some guys prefer body over face. Other face over body. Some doesn't care at all.
Yes.
Some does
Only the bunda for me
For tens of thousands of years, humans have fucked on the basis of outward appearances.
Yes
Yes. But that doesn't mean I have a fixed type or need a girl to look a certain way. I like a lot of different body types, but I have to like the body type.
Just don’t be morbidly obese and we’re all good.
I've learned it's not the biggest factor there is for me, as you'll naturally find someone to be more attractive the closer to get with them.
Yes
Yes, but have really low standards…