TW:miscarriage. Lied about when I lost my baby. Here to confess.

  1. I’m so sorry you lost your baby and even more; had no support. Your actions are understandable, you wanted attention from the father, so you told him you were still pregnant since that kept him in contact with you. It’s okay. You did no wrong. It’s a very confusing process especially being that young. Forgive yourself. And try to let those cruel comments go, they are not true. Sending you big hugs.

  2. Thank you, this comment makes me feel a bit more sane. I’ve thought awful things about myself throughout the years for doing what I did.

  3. It’s never too late to mourn your lost baby. Mourning is healthy - it will involve going into those memories and just sitting with them. Crying. Talk to the baby. Say sorry. Say Whatever u feel get it out.

  4. I’m very sorry for your loss. Miscarriage is very hard. I didn’t think it was before it happened to me. I was devastated and I made bad choices too due to my depression from it especially because I had no support. I was early on so I hadn’t told anyone yet except my husband. He didn’t really have much reaction or attachment at that point because it was an accident so he kinda just moved on and I felt stuck. Anyways I hope you find closure..

  5. I’m so sorry you’ve had to experience miscarriage, I wish no one had to go through it. Thank you for your support❤️

  6. I wouldn’t say you shouldn’t have been having sex at all, it’s quite normal for people to start around that age. BUT, you should have been using protection if doing it at all when that young. Sorry for your loss.

  7. There’s nothing wrong with having sex at 15. It happens. It’s just that responsibility aspect that needs to be taken care of. Like using protection and birth control so that you don’t have to go through things like this at all. Just wanted to say this.

  8. Do what is best for you sweetheart. Fuck those people back there. Sounds like they reacted…well like a bunch of immature teenagers which they were. If it’s going to help you to open up to others about what truly happened then go for it. As someone else already said too, it’s never too late to mourn for your lost child. You could have a small vigil in your room if you wanted? You have the support of this community here :) I also wanted to say even though I don’t know you, I’m in awe and proud of your courage. It must’ve taken a lot to even be open about this here on Reddit. You sound like a strong woman and I wish you the best going forward.

  9. When I was in high school I decided to homeschooling my 10th grade year. The next year I went back because I wanted to graduate with my friends. Unbeknownst to me the rumor going around I homeschooled because I had gotten pregnant, and had a baby.

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