i regret my hoe phase

  1. If you're actually 16, you're perfectly fine, believe me lol. You're lucky you've figured this out now. If you have friends that are constantly bringing it up or mocking you for it, make NO mistake. They are NOT your friends. It doesn't matter how long you've known them, they do not care for you like you think they do. Whether or not you choose to completely drop them is your prerogative, but at least make sure to keep your important business away from their ears and stop trusting them.

  2. Your hoe phase was no mistake. The people around you are the mistake. You can not change your past but you can change your surrounding and finde people that are good for you and accept you for you are.

  3. I think people are down voting me for saying that she has to decide if it was a mistake or not, but we don't know and she could have done it for the wrong reasons even if I believe that there is not amount or any kind of sex you can have that would be wrong as long as no one was hurt.*

  4. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Try not to be so hard on yourself. As long as you were safe, it’s really okay and you got a lot of experiences out of it. A mature, secure man is going to appreciate that about you.

  5. I’m 29 and I don’t regret being a hoe at all. But I had moments when I would from other peoples own internalized shame being projected onto me. Now I regret some of the things I didn’t do when dwelling in that shame.

  6. So let me get this straight.... You mess around with a bunch of guys because you enjoy the sexuality and the attention it brings and u r a hoe because of it. Yet it is ok for all these guys to mess around and yet they are just being guys who get praised for another notch in the belt. As a guy I can tell you don't listen to the labels and they are just names that are only hurtful if you allow it. Funny how guys always drool over the women who act slutty or very sexual and will jump into bed with them in a heartbeat yet will throw insults at the same person especially if they don't hook up with that woman. Women are allowed to have sex with who they want and how many different partners they want and if the people around you do not accept that then they are not your friends. Be you and don't let others determine how you should be. Just be safe about it and never regret what makes you happy at the moment and own it.

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